We already have social stigmas to eliminate; we don't need the law enabling inequality and discrimination. Judge Walker added, "Proposition 8 places the force of law behind stigmas against gays and lesbians, including: gays and lesbians do not have intimate relationships similar to heterosexual couples; gays and lesbians are not as good as heterosexuals; and gay and lesbian relationships do not deserve the full recognition of society."
Love prevailed, and equality won yesterday. But the fight is far from over. Yesterday's vote overturned an amendment that took away rights that had already been granted - and should already be naturally equal - and reinstated marriage equality, specifically for the 18,000 people who married under California's legal same-sex marriage laws. We still need to move forward to legalize gay marriage in the state of New York...and Illinois...and Colorado...and and and. But in order to do that, we have to reflect on what marriage is and what it is not. Marriage is the state sanctioning of two people as a single unit. Marriage doesn't have to be achieved through the white dress, black suit, flowers, cake and first dance tradition in a church. You are married by the state; you are recognized and blessed by the church, if you so choose.
As expected, an appeal has already been made by the opposition. Although I'm hopeful for the future, one thing is certain: People are talking. Voices are being heard. Our laws our changing. We are on the road towards equality.
As expected, an appeal has already been made by the opposition. Although I'm hopeful for the future, one thing is certain: People are talking. Voices are being heard. Our laws our changing. We are on the road towards equality.
Thank you, Claire, for being a modern, compassionate young woman! I totally agree with you. 62/F/Ore. (well, himself says so too!)
ReplyDeleteClaire, you continue to amaze me.
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